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If spanking, paddling or caning is your fetish, you’ve found the right place. Spanking Dating is where dominants who love to spank can search for desirous partners. It's also where submissives come to search for that special someone who can smack their ass just right.

Some subs may be looking for a quick spanking hookup, others may want a recurring spank relationship. Some are searching for the right dominant to submit to for regular discipline on a more intimate level.

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It’s easy to meet your spanking lover in just 5 easy steps:

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Every profile at Spanking Dating has been crafted by a real kinkster who is just like you, trying to quench their thirst for sensual discipline and corporal punishment. At our spanking dating site, you'll be able to find other, real spanking enthusiasts in your area.

It’s important to us to create a spanking community of genuine spanking lovers, and in order to do that you must start with real men and women who want to meet up. For that reason, unlike many other kinky dating sites, the profiles you see here at Spanking Dating were all created by real members. No fake profiles allowed.

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